tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37476114.post8869312890315198709..comments2024-03-24T03:19:18.249-04:00Comments on An English Major's Money: Disposable IncomeEnglish Majorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00276582833751319518noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37476114.post-15207791286123293862007-10-24T00:04:00.000-04:002007-10-24T00:04:00.000-04:00I dunno...didn't returning the iPhone entail some ...I dunno...didn't returning the iPhone entail some kind of penalty? And a freelancer hasta have a phone.<BR/>It's the $400 glasses I don't get. Those must be great glasses!Jeff Pulicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10557790577435036365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37476114.post-78640832106104309382007-09-24T11:40:00.000-04:002007-09-24T11:40:00.000-04:00My live-in boyfriend is the same way. He makes ton...My live-in boyfriend is the same way. He makes tonnes of money (especially compared to me who just stopped being a student 5 months ago), but he also spends it like he's always going to have it. <BR/><BR/>He's a freelancer as well, but it's been over a year since he's had any "between contract" time, so he's never really got to worry about not having money, just that sometimes he has to wait to get paid for something that he's already finished. <BR/><BR/>We were discussing personal finance with a friend just a few days ago and he joked about how in 5 years I'd have my student debts paid and still have a down payment for a house, and he'd be broke despite the fact that he makes 5 times as much as I do. Which I don't think is very far off.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37476114.post-56752571462495265442007-09-19T08:19:00.000-04:002007-09-19T08:19:00.000-04:00I don't know about anyone else, but I find it much...I don't know about anyone else, but I find it much easier to improve other peoples finances than my own. I'm guessing its an extension of 'the grass is always greener'.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37476114.post-78881555034452302412007-09-18T23:00:00.000-04:002007-09-18T23:00:00.000-04:00I have to agree and sympathize with you. My partne...I have to agree and sympathize with you. My partner has significant savings and I am not thrilled with how he is investing them, but other than making it clear that I am willing to talk to him about this and help do any research necessary, I don't feel like I can tell him what to do. As long as there is no debt on his side, I'm happy :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37476114.post-285665473094599112007-09-18T21:18:00.000-04:002007-09-18T21:18:00.000-04:00This English major (with an MA in Literature and A...This English major (with an MA in Literature and ABD in Rhetoric) has these two bits of wisdom to repeat. Take them as you wish:<BR/><BR/>1. Men enter a relationship expecting the women to never change, yet she does. Women enter a relationship expecting the man to change, yet he never does.<BR/><BR/>2. Paraphrased from **The Millionaire Next Door**: One key attribute of millionaires is that their spouses are almost always on the exact same page with regard to the value and importance of personal finance and savings. There are no serious conflicts with savings goals and methods; rather, there is agreement, cooperation, and mutual support.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37476114.post-30122881120137285182007-09-18T19:54:00.000-04:002007-09-18T19:54:00.000-04:00Smart move. I'm going through the same thing tryi...Smart move. I'm going through the same thing trying to encourage organizing ;) But yeah, I think that unless your financial state depends on each other's, it's best to let each other do thinks your own way. If that makes sense...Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12548150437127473109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37476114.post-89501888487483585462007-09-18T15:47:00.000-04:002007-09-18T15:47:00.000-04:00Yeah, unless you have a combined income you really...Yeah, unless you have a combined income you really can't do more than offer. I do most of the financial legwork (which I like) but my husband knows that by having me do it he has to stick to what I decide, or participate if he wants to modify it. Works fine because he'll participate if he cares.Mrs. Micahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06025370180166451830noreply@blogger.com